Today was quite the day lemme tell ya
We went from yelling at a rapist, yelling at my gf's parents for defending a rapist, then wanting to go swimming with a group realizing that all pools are closed, too buying a hotel room for a night just to swim, to realizing that there pool was also closed too lol. Today was ridiculous.
So it all started this morning with yelling at my gf's adopted sisters boyfriend, better known in this situation as the rapist. Allegations rose up the last couple days of him having sex with her without her consent. The adopted sister has lots of medical conditions she cannot control, like seizures, schizophrenia, ticks, and lots of trauma. This trauma was caused by previous abusive relationships, and her abusive family she grew up with. Let's call her "T" for brevities sake
Now T has a boyfriend that the house all sorta kinda dislikes.... becuase they think that he's annoying. I thought he was chill (at the time) and just thought that all the hate with others towards him was just a clash of personalities. Lets call T's boyfriend L. I always try to keep out of the never-ending house drama, but this time, its much different.
The morning it happened in was fairly calm. Just like any morning at my gf's house. Everything went by normally, and I ended up going to work that day. My gf did not go to work because felt sick in the morning, and realized that driving all the way to seattle to work a 8 hour shift was too much (rightfully so).
I come home at around 10 or 11, and go straight to our room. I'm not the type to initiate small talk with anyone at the house (unless it was L). My gf later tells me that T's bf straight up raped her early in the morning. I was completely shocked. This did not sound like him at
T was asleep early in the morning (around 4am) when L was still awake. L was feeling a little horny, and decided to confront T for sex. T was fast asleep, and L was clearly aware of that. According to T, she dosent remember any of the sexual encounters that took place. She woke up to L doing things to her and told him to stop immediatley. T very clearly not in the mood, (due to the fact she was fucking sleeping!) and freaked out. L's story is a bit different though.
L says that she slightly grazed him while he was in bed with her, and apparently that was a cue for him to start???? He claims that when they want to have sex, they sortof rub up against each other to signify that they both want it. L took this slight graze as a green light to start having sex with her. Since T does not remember any of this, she thinks that she may have had a tick, or mini seizure in her sleep that caused her to do that? Im not too sure. But here is where things get fishy.
L claims that he asked before doing anything to her and she said yes. He also believes that she was awake for the whole thing. T says the complete opposite.
You can see where things are starting to go right?
We ended up shunning L, telling him that he dosent deserve to live, and he needs to move out asap or else people will kill him, hoping he commits suicide.... ya know, tame stuff. this led to my gf's parents defending him saying that "this whole situation was just a big misunderstanding blah blah blah...." My gf did NOT like how her parents were defending L, so she lost it one night. She is in a group chat with all the girls in her family, so she started to call out her parents on what they were doing, and went on a rampage in there. Then she got into a HUUUUGE shout match with her parents (one of which I was included in... but I wasnt shouting at all lol), which ended up with all of us getting sick of being at the house.
at the time, my gf and T had some of there friends over so we all decided as a group to get out of the house and go swimming. We probably called like 10 places, all of which ended up closed, so my gf got the idea to buy a hotel room for a day and just swim in there pool. We ended up reserving one which was in both me and my gf's name, so that the room was cheaper. We ended up checking in, then telling everyone to come in so we could check out the pool..... THE POOL WAS ALSO CLOSED. We all felt so increadibly defeated. We searched EVERYWHERE just to get let down again. We all decided to give up and just go out to eat instead at Red Robin
The food was good. We were all dissapointed about the pool stuff, but happy that we at least got to spend some time together before we all headed home. My gf's friend tried a couple of times to convince me to look at other girls he found attractive in front of my gf..... Which made me extremely uncomftorable, but other than that it was fun. They all headed back home, and we went to grab some clothes and stuff after we were done eating. My gf and I decided to go back to the hotel room that she bought and just stayed the night there, because we didnt want that money going to waste.
Half of this entry was written at the hotel during the night, but I had to finish this entry a day later because im a little busy sometimes.
but yeah, that was one hell of a day, and I thought that this day should be written about and recorded for future me to look back on. Maybe someday I'll dig up this entry and think "god dayum ducky you lived one hell of a life that day". But until then, lets hope that I dont have to share a house with another rapist. Fingers crossed on this one
-- Duckyboy